{"id":3276,"date":"2025-01-06T08:43:01","date_gmt":"2025-01-06T13:43:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.graymanwrites.com\/blog\/?p=3276"},"modified":"2025-01-06T08:43:01","modified_gmt":"2025-01-06T13:43:01","slug":"unwanted-epiphanies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grayrinehart.com\/blog\/unwanted-epiphanies\/","title":{"rendered":"Unwanted Epiphanies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today is Epiphany, when we Christians celebrate the wise men visiting the infant Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>An epiphany, in more general terms of course, is some sudden insight, some moment of revelation, some instant of burgeoning wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>And <strong>sometimes, epiphanies suck<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com\/f\/1095fe3f-a1f6-4abb-9af5-c317cebe7e0e\/dfrut14-0d49c43d-7360-4199-8332-1f7f7791cc5e.png\/v1\/fit\/w_828,h_428,q_70,strp\/epiphany_by_beck3d_dfrut14-414w-2x.jpg?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7ImhlaWdodCI6Ijw9ODI2IiwicGF0aCI6IlwvZlwvMTA5NWZlM2YtYTFmNi00YWJiLTlhZjUtYzMxN2NlYmU3ZTBlXC9kZnJ1dDE0LTBkNDljNDNkLTczNjAtNDE5OS04MzMyLTFmN2Y3NzkxY2M1ZS5wbmciLCJ3aWR0aCI6Ijw9MTYwMCJ9XV0sImF1ZCI6WyJ1cm46c2VydmljZTppbWFnZS5vcGVyYXRpb25zIl19.U9ZLvKwKicNNsLywIrfkuUbczR8sEzIHIkpTeUBlvR8\" alt=\" \" width=\"600\" height=\"309\" \/><br \/>\n<span class=\"imagecaption\" style=\"font-size: 65%;\"><em>(Image: &#8220;Epiphany,&#8221; by Beck3D, on DeviantArt under Creative Commons.)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Discovering unwanted, unimagined, heartbreaking facts, after which we can never return to that state of innocence, of blissful ignorance we previously enjoyed &#8212; those epiphanies can be soul-crushing. The pain, the bitterness, lingers.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe on this day we can be more like the wise men, who saw a good sign and reckoned it for what it was, and then fitted out their caravan and sallied forth.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully what we find will bring more joy than pain, more happiness than hardship. 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