{"id":2882,"date":"2019-01-04T09:04:08","date_gmt":"2019-01-04T14:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.graymanwrites.com\/blog\/?p=2882"},"modified":"2019-01-04T09:05:36","modified_gmt":"2019-01-04T14:05:36","slug":"starting-the-year-more-perspective-than-retrospective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grayrinehart.com\/blog\/starting-the-year-more-perspective-than-retrospective\/","title":{"rendered":"Starting the Year: More Perspective than Retrospective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I wrote in my newsletter yesterday,* I thought about writing a &#8220;2018 Year in Review&#8221; piece, and then I thought about writing a &#8220;What&#8217;s Coming Up in 2019&#8221; piece, but I decided that I didn&#8217;t like either idea.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not that 2018 was terrible &#8212; it was okay, it had some nice moments &#8212; and it&#8217;s not that I expect 2019 to be particularly troublesome. No, what I&#8217;m trying to do is shorten my perspective. Instead of looking at the past or the future through a metaphorical telescope, and trying to bring them closer to learn more about them, <strong>I want to look at now, at the present, to see it more clearly.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Song Lyrics\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/silkeremmery\/15249017654\/\" data-flickr-embed=\"true\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7563\/15249017654_7b71d7ab5c.jpg\" alt=\"Song Lyrics\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<span class=\"imagecaption\" style=\"font-size: 65%;\"><em>The moments of our lives seem to slip through our fingers&#8230;. (Image: &#8220;Song Lyrics,&#8221; by Silke Remmery, on Flickr under Creative Commons.)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>I want to see each day through a lens of gratitude<\/strong>, thankful for being alive and for whatever opportunities I have. <strong>I want to see things as they are<\/strong>, not through rose- or any other-colored glasses. And\u00a0<strong>I want to do what I can, when I can<\/strong>, to discharge the responsibilities I&#8217;ve taken on &#8212; and especially to be careful about taking on any new responsibilities, lest I fail and let myself (and maybe you) down.<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s to the New Year! 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